A.D. – The Dating Struggle

The Truth about the “90 Day Rule”

A few years ago, I was obsessed with a television series called “Girlfriends.” The main character Joan had what she referred to as a “90 Day Rule.” In short, what this meant was that in order for her to find love and build a lasting relationship with someone, the man that she dated would have to wait 90 days before they became sexually involved.Now, in theory, this sounds like a great idea, right? Indeed, sometimes sex can cloud judgment. You also don’t want the man to think that you go

The art of deception: I can wear a spanx, but he can’t

From highlighting and contouring our faces to bundles and wigs, ladies we have to admit we have enough accessories to make us go from a good 5 to a 10 in two to three hours or less. Many women I know wouldn't be caught leaving the house without makeup, much less their weaves and wigs. In addition to the many accessories we have to beautify us every day, we have these beautiful, body contouring undergarments that we can wear under our clothes that will take us from a 3-liter bottle

Black Men Don’t Cheat…..

Yes, you read the headline right: Black Men Don’t Cheat. That is what read across radio personality Charlamagne ThaGod’s chest as he modeled off a new t-shirt on Instagram that was gifted to him. Charlamagne ThaGod proudly showing off his "Black Men Don't Cheat" t-shirt. Charlamagne has made it no secret that he cheated on his wife before but has been a member of the “Faithful Male Community” for at least two years. He also boasts the advantages of being loyal and faithful such as having peace of

Why Issa gets a pass and Mary Jane doesn’t

Ok first off...I'm baaaaaaaaack! The wedding is over and I am officially a married dating blogger!!!! Oh you guys and gals didn't think I was done blogging about the struggle just cause I got married did you? Absolutely not. If anything you should be more inclined to take my advice now that I've snagged me a good man 😂😂😂😂😂 Anywho, let's just dive right into my topic for the day. Two of my favorite single lady shows are back: Being Mary Jane and Insecure. Both of the leading ladies

From ‘The Dating Struggle’ to a walk down the aisle

Over three years ago, I began this little blog. I started with the intention for it to be sort of a personal diary that I was sharing with the world. Needless to say because of the title of the blog, I was a having a rough time with dating! Part of the reason I left Birmingham, Alabama was not only because I was a victim of a fallen economy at the time (can you say 3 layoffs in one year?) but I had my heart broken one too many times. Hey

Sexiest teacher in America or most inappropriate???

(Back by popular demand) Disclaimer: Before ya'll go and start labeling me a hater, let me make one thing very CLEAR: A hater I will never be. This blog will state my opinion and the opinion of a few other women who happen to be "sexy" teachers as well. Lets just look at this blog as a lesson in appropriateness in the classroom. Carry on.... Today when I logged on to Facebook, this woman, Patrice "Tricey" Brown, was all up and down my timeline with this tight, figure hugging

Don’t believe the Valentine’s Day HYPE!

Things you want to say to your friends….but can’t

The Top Five Types of Single Women

I can honestly say that at some point in my life, I have been one of these women. I made this video, not only for entertainment purposes (though I must admit it is kinda funny), but for women to take a deep look at themselves. Many times we don't understand why we are single and the last person we want to blame is ourselves. But the truth of the the matter is that we are all flawed. Self-improvement should never end. So as you watch this video, (and share) take

Women who claim they WANT to be cheated on….

Believe it or not, there are actually women out there that WANT to be cheated on. Hear actual tweets from some of these women and what I think of them #thedatingstruggle

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