Now keep in mind all of the stories that I post on my site are real. No fictional characters or scenarios. I have given them all alias names to protect their identity and privacy since technically I’m sharing all of their personal secrets

So ladies and gentlemen, this week we are introducing a new character to the cast of The Dating Struggle. Let’s just call her Sabrina…She is an openly gay woman with a major lesbian struggle on her hands.

Sabrina met a young lady, Jordan, about three years ago at work. She was immediately attracted to her but there was just one problem: The girl who she was drawn to was heterosexual. Jordan was also still in a relationship with the father of her child.image

Nevertheless, sometime around the end of last year, Sabrina’s co-worker (who apparently knew Sabrina had a crush on Jordan), told her to approach Jordan because she just may be interested in pursuing something with her.

She took her co-worker’s advice and went for it.

Jordan told Sabrina that she was having issues with her child’s father and that they’d broken up. Soon after that, Sabrina and Jordan ended up being in a relationship.image

Or so Sabrina thought…..

Jordan pretty much keeps her relationship with Sabrina a secret from her family. And according to what she tells Sabrina, her ex wants to get back with her but she is not interested because he’s “sneaky.” Besides he didn’t live in the same city so Sabrina didn’t think he would be much of a threat to their relationship.

Nevertheless, every time the ex comes in to town, Jordan is nowhere to be found.

Recently, after having sex, Jordan randomly confessed to Sabrina that she’d cheated with her ex. But Sabrina wasn’t entirely the innocent victim because she confessed to have cheated on her as well with another woman.

Sabrina’s main struggle right now is that she doesn’t feel her girlfriend takes their relationship as seriously as she does. Jordan spends too much time with the ex when he’s in town and she hardly hears from her when he’s around.

Her question to Jordan is “If her baby’s daddy/ex decides to change, will you get back with him?”

The last time I spoke to Sabrina, they had broken up, but Jordan was still trying to make things work, clicking in to the line as we were talking. I told Sabrina to take the call and keep me posted to the outcome.

So what do you think readers? Is Jordan just experimenting with her sexuality with Sabrina? Should Sabrina wait patiently for Jordan to officially come out to her family and friends so they can live happily ever after? Should Sabrina walk away? She wants to hear what you have to say!