Felicia is definitely bringing the drama this week ladies and gentlemen.
So I’m gonna start with a story Felicia told me recently about her and her current boyfriend. As you already know from her intro in my blog “Meet my cast of Characters,” Felicia is dating this guy, Adam that she met online a few months ago.
The relationship started off rocky from the beginning as she found out a few weeks in that he was still in a relationship with his ex. He eventually dumped her to be with Felicia and the ex did not take it to well. She actually showed up to Adam’s house raising all kinds of hell and even attempting a fight with Felicia. And Felicia does not, nor has she ever been one to back down from a fight even though this girl was twice her size.
Although to many this scenario would have caused a major red flag to go up this early on in the relationship, Felicia took on the challenge. I mean after all, I don’t call her “The Drama Queen” for nothing.
Recently, Felicia has still been having suspicions about Adam’s possible infidelity. A few weeks ago she found a mysterious earring on the nightstand next to his bed that did not belong to her. After grilling him about the earring for nearly an hour, Adam stuck to his story “I don’t know whose it is. I have no idea how that got there.” Although her gut instinct is telling her that he knows exactly who it belongs to and that he’s lying, until she has proof, he is innocent until PROVEN guilty. So she stuck it out with him.
But now she may have gotten the proof that she’s been looking for.
Adam was planning to go out of town to handle some music industry biz. His car was in the “shop” and Felicia thought that he was going to need to take her car. However, when she was trying to get in touch with him the entire day, he was not answering his calls or texts. Felicia being the “Daredevil Drama Queen” she is, decides to show up to her beau’s house to find out what exactly was going on. When she gets there, she sees a mysterious car in the driveway. She examines the car inside and out and she can tell that the car belongs to a woman.
*Knock, Knock”
No answer..
She knocks a little louder.
Still no answer.
The polite knocks then turn into Swat Team bangs at the door.
*BANG, BANG, BANG, BANG, BANG…*
At this point the neighbors are peeking out their windows and speculating from their door step to find out what the racket is about.
Felicia could care less.
She then goes around to the back door.
*BANG, BANG, BANG, BANG, BANG……..*
ADAM STILL HAS NOT ANSWERED THE DOOR.
She then goes around to his bedroom window and throws a giant branch at his window and breaks it.
This got his attention.
“Babe what are you doing?”-Adam says as if he overslept through all of the other noise Felicia just made outside of his home.
He finally opens the door and there a woman sits in his living room.
“Who the fuck are you????”-Felicia angrily asks the young lady.
Adam tells her that she is a family friend that was gonna give him a ride to his out of town meeting. He claims he didn’t hear her at the door because he was sleep and she was in the living room waiting on him to wake up from his nap so that they could hit the road.
*side eyes*
Really Adam? Really?
Felicia goes on to yell at the girl and basically kicks her out of his house because he isn’t going anywhere with her. The girl is apparently frightened to death of Felicia and her antics that she barely put up a fight back and leaves peacefully as Felicia yells and screams at her all the way to the car.
And even after all of that madness. Felicia is still with Adam. She says she felt guilty about acting the way she did if indeed the girl was a family friend. She later apologized to the girl when she saw her out.
But apparently, the girl grew some balls on Facebook and made a comment that Felicia took personal. The comment was basically saying something about women being intimidated by her around their man. Felicia immediately told Adam and he asked the young lady to take the comment down because it was disrespectful to his girl.
Of course that won Felicia back and he’s back on her good side. But something about that whole scenario is extremely weird to me….
How would you have handled this situation? Would you forgive Adam so frequently and quickly? Is this just an instance of fighting for love and your man? Are some women just too quick to give up at the sight of trouble? Or is Felicia just waaaaaay too forgiving?
Felicia…This song is for you. No you haven’t busted the windows out of his car (yet) but the window of his house is close enough….
my relationship (past nd present) not perfect nd I can’t talk so I’m going to say…good luck