This struggle is actually from a man this week ladies and gentlemen.

Yes men have just as many struggles as women.

So here it goes…

This guy was seeing this young lady. They met through mutual friends and went out on one official date.

They met each other out a couple of times but that was the extent of their relationship. Basically just kickin’ it, hangin’ out, getting to know one another.

They’d never had any physical contact but he was definitely open to it.

Anyway, one night at about 1:30am in the morning, she calls him. Now mind you ladies, if a man calls you this time of night or vice versa, as grown people we all know what that means: BOOTY CALL!!!!!

I think the old saying our grandparents used to say went something like “Ain’t nothing open after midnight except legs.”

Anywho, this young lady calls him to tell him that there is a spider in her house and she’s afraid to kill it and asked him to come over to kill it for her.

Hmmmmm ok. So in his mind (or any man’s mind for that matter) he’s thinking “Yeah sure she needs me to come kill a spider at 1:30am in the morning. I know what she really wants and I’m about to go over there and give it to her too….right after I kill that spider.”

After he got there and killed the spider. They sat down on the couch things got a little heated with them kissing and touching and then she stopped him telling him, “I don’t give it up that easy, I think you should probably go.”

Ok. Kudos to you girl for not being easy breezy, but why in the hell would you invite a man over to your house that time of night just to kill a damn spider???? Not a smart move.

I kinda feel sorry for the man in this case for having to leave this heated 8th grade make out session and go release his frustrations after leaving at the local strip club.


What a tease….What a struggle…..

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