“What is it with these negroes and wanting to just eat pussy??? LOL It used to be such a special sexual act. Now niggas just wanna eat pussy like they drink water.” -A.D.

Yep. The quote above was said by me in response to an actual text conversation I was having with a friend of mine the other day. What sparked my reaction was not only the fact that she was telling me that a married man was bugging her about going down on her, but the fact that all too often I’m hearing stories of women telling me about men who do this so passionately on someone that is not even their girl.

Now maybe I’m kinda old school, but I remember the days when oral sex was not even thought of if two people were not in a serious relationship. Let alone, if a man is married or in a relationship and he decides to cheat, he would AT LEAST save the oral for his wife or wifey.

Lately, I’ve seen and experienced, how lax men have gotten when it comes to whose vagina they put their mouth on (pardon my graphic language.) I have heard stories of women who are barely dating a man and he goes down on her, blows her mind, doesn’t even require sex and the young ladies never hear from them again.

Has oral sex become the new sex?

You know the baby boomer generation, (my parents) would barely have sex unless they were married or in a long term relationship. Then when oral sex got popular, men and women alike found it disgusting to begin with. If asked if they did it, many were even embarrassed to admit if they did.

But now, men and women are putting their mouths on the parts of someone they barely know! I’m just confused. Now I know since the beginning of time, men have cheated. It’s a very disrespectful act. Highly disrespectful. But it happens. Every day.

HOWEVER! If you are gonna cheat, can you at least save that for your significant other?? It worries me to think that men are just going around orally pleasing any woman they meet all willy nilly.

And ladies aren’t exempt either, we can’t be going around putting our mouth on every Tom, DICK, and Sam.

We already give of ourselves freely sexually when we think we’ve met someone we can possibly build with. But make these men and women wait for the oral!!! We have to keep something sacred people since the act of sex certainly isn’t to the majority of the population any more.

I just had to vent on that one. I’m sure I’ll have a lot of interesting feedback.

Feel free.