(submitted by anonymous)
“Well I went to a happy hr spot w/ my home girl. Met this tall, dark, and handsome guy while I was there. The night went well we conversed, had a few drinks, & danced. He said he was single, no kids, college graduate, & a fireman. Seemed like he was a stand up guy! We exchanged numbers & I was feeling this guy. Not just b/c of what he had but b/c he was really sweat, funny and respectful. We talked for a few days and I never head from him again. Me being me I didn’t reach out to him b/c I had contacted him last and didn’t want to seem like a bugaboo. Well a little over a month went by and I just so happen to see one of his friends I met that night we were out and asked about him and sure enough his friend spilled the beans. The friend stated he was married & had 2 children!! Here I was thinking it was me with the problem. I just don’t get why dudes get married only to cheat. Now denying your wife is one thing but denying your own kids….. Now that’s just pathetic. I’m sooooo glad I never tried to contact him again!”
That’s a damn shame. I hate sneaky married men. If you want to be single. Then stay single. Mind games are the worst. Girl move on, God will send you just what you need. DO NOT CALL HIM ANYMORE!!!
I agree with Cheryl. The sad thing is, this lady could have ended up in a real ugly confrontation with the man’s wife without even having intentions to disrespect anyone! Men want to have it both ways. They want to have that family life, picket fence, two and-a-half kids, but the fact is, they know they can have that, and if they step out to have fun on the side, they’ll probably get away with it. Women can spend so many years just trying to find a man who wants to commit at all, that men know she probably won’t be quick to throw it away.