So if you chose the option to look through the phone, I’d like you to respond in the comment section to this question…

Whyyyyyyy?

If you are looking through his phone, it is obvious that you don’t trust him. And isn’t that what relationships are supposed to be built on?

And let’s say you do find something in his phone that isn’t so favorable..What are you gonna do with that information?

Here’s what…..NOTHING.

That’s right, I said it. You ain’t gonna do S**T!!!! lmao

You gonna confront him about it, he’s gonna come up with some lie to tell you, you’ll argue about it for about a day or two and then you gonna get right back with him. I’ve seen it happen time and time again.

Then when you do get back with him, the level of trust will be even worst than it was before you snooped.

I understand women have trust issues, hell I have trust issues. But snooping through your man’s personal possessions is not gonna help you trust him.

You need answers? Ask your man. If you don’t believe him, only time will tell. Remember, everything done in the dark will come to light. Don’t go looking for something you don’t want to find or can’t handle if you do find it.

And if you do discover that your man has been cheating or lying to you, remember this quote that was presented on BET’s “Being Mary Jane” this week:

Is he worth it??