"What is it with these negroes and wanting to just eat pussy??? LOL It used to be such a special sexual act. Now niggas just wanna eat pussy like they drink water." -A.D. Yep. The quote above was said by me in response to an actual text conversation I was having with a friend of mine the other day. What sparked my reaction was not only the fact that she was telling me that a married man was bugging her about going down on her, but the fact that all

"42% of Black women have never been married" This is the scary statistic that is displayed across the screen after the powerfully real opening scene of "Being Mary Jane" that aired on BET this past Tuesday. The scene begins with Mary Jane, a single successful T.V. journalist (played by the beautiful Gabrielle Union) baking a cake at 2am in the morning and receiving an unexpected but SEXY late night visitor. She's had a casual relationship with this man for the past few months. The man is highly intoxicated but insists

(There has been a lot of talk about this color complex issue with the documentary "Dark Girls" being aired on the OWN network tonight. So here is an encore blog I wrote a few years back. Sadly, nothing has changed since 2008, when it was originally written.) Have you ever had someone say something to you that was probably intended to be a compliment but came across as somewhat insulting at the same time? Well I have dealt with receiving one "compliment" that completely irks the living hell out of

So I follow another blogger named Stephan Labossiere on a website called Stephanspeaks.com He wrote an interesting blog called "7 Reasons Why She is Just His Side Chick." I couldn't help but think of my character Deena as she has knowingly and willingly taken on this embarrassing role in Greg's life. For those that need to get caught up on Deena refer to my previous blog "Deena's Dirty Little Secret (Side Chick Struggle)." As I read the reasons that Stephan gave as to why a woman would take on such

You were first introduced to Morgan in my blog entitled Meet My Cast of Characters..... I gave Morgan the title "Miss Perfect" not because she is, but because rarely will she admit to any wrongdoing when it comes to her failed relationships. Sure she is beautiful, smart, ambitious, and responsible. But she can also be a little too independent and by her own admittance, takes on the wifey role a little sooner in relationships than she should. Her last serious relationship was with a great man who loved her and

"A woman is supposed to make a man's dick hard, not his life" Yep. When I heard a man say this, I literally had to note it in my Iphone to reference it in my blog this week. Is this how men REALLy think? So I'm gonna veer away from my characters this week to share with you guys an interesting conversation I found myself in with some young men I met last week. Very rarely will you have men and women in a room together and the topic of

On the heels of the season 2 premiere of my FAVE reality show Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta, I felt it very appropriate to introduce one of my most interesting characters, Miss Deena. Like Joceline Hernandez and Shay "Buckeye" Johnson of LHHATL, Deena is the shameful "Side Chick." As you read in the cast intro blog, Meet My Cast of Characters, Deena is having an interoffice love affair with Greg. Now although Greg is practically ten years younger than she is, the guy is apparently smoother than most men her

Felicia is definitely bringing the drama this week ladies and gentlemen. So I'm gonna start with a story Felicia told me recently about her and her current boyfriend. As you already know from her intro in my blog "Meet my cast of Characters," Felicia is dating this guy, Adam that she met online a few months ago. The relationship started off rocky from the beginning as she found out a few weeks in that he was still in a relationship with his ex. He eventually dumped her to be with

Now keep in mind all of the stories that I post on my site are real. No fictional characters or scenarios. I have given them all alias names to protect their identity and privacy since technically I'm sharing all of their personal secrets So ladies and gentlemen, this week we are introducing a new character to the cast of The Dating Struggle. Let's just call her Sabrina...She is an openly gay woman with a major lesbian struggle on her hands. Sabrina met a young lady, Jordan, about three years ago