The art of deception: I can wear a spanx, but he can’t

From highlighting and contouring our faces to bundles and wigs, ladies we have to admit we have enough accessories to make us go from a good 5 to a 10 in two to three hours or less. Many women I know wouldn't be caught leaving the house without makeup, much less their weaves and wigs. In addition to the many accessories we have to beautify us every day, we have these beautiful, body contouring undergarments that we can wear under our clothes that will take us from a 3-liter bottle

Sexiest teacher in America or most inappropriate???

  (Back by popular demand) Disclaimer: Before ya'll go and start labeling me a hater, let me make one thing very CLEAR: A hater I will never be. This blog will state my opinion and the opinion of a few other women who happen to be "sexy" teachers as well. Lets just look at this blog as a lesson in appropriateness in the classroom. Carry on.... Today when I logged on to Facebook, this woman, Patrice "Tricey" Brown, was all up and down my timeline with this tight, figure hugging

Don’t believe the Valentine’s Day HYPE!

Ask Mr. Dating Struggle: I know he loves me, but he has a girlfriend

Dear Mr. Dating Struggle, My situation is rather complicated. I have been off and on with a man for nearly 10 years. He has made serious commitments to me on several occasions, it just never remained consistent. We talked about marriage and we even met each other's families. Nevertheless, over all this time, I never got the type of loyal relationship I really wanted. During a brief break, I discovered he had moved on and now has a girlfriend. He told me he's not gonna break up with her, yet

Cheater struggle

In this clip circulating all over YouTube, a boy gets confronted by two friends that he's been sleeping with.... How it ends may make guys think twice about cheating....Or not.

Stalker struggle

(submitted via email) I met this guy a few months ago through some mutual friends. He was out with a very close friend of mine and that friend introduced us one night at a local bar. We exchanged numbers and hit it off very well. He was a great guy. We spent numerous hours on the phone, meeting up for lunch and dinner dates. A few movies here and there, spending a lot of time at each other’s houses, Just dating! This man was great! He was fun loving, great

Persistent Struggle

(submitted via Facebook) "Ok so a gentleman tries to spit a lil game at the bank. His approach was not very appealing as he was making references to my posterior and saying how aroused he was getting just by looking. I wasn't interested. "No thank u, I'm really not interested but it was nice meeting u." No biggie. Come to work today and get a call directly to my office! Its HIM. He says "You get my flowers? I had my assistant send u some?" HUH?!! And POOF, flowers at

“Can’t keep it up” Struggle

You'll probably read this week's Struggle of the Week in about the same amount of time it took the woman who submitted this story to be done with the rather awkward experience she had with a young man she met. This one will be short (pun intended) Just read on, I'll explain. This young lady, let's just call her Melanie, was introduced to this guy by her friend Jasmine. Jasmine had been dating Joseph for a little while and she wanted to play match maker by introducing his friend Albert

Cold Feet Struggle

There was this guy who was engaged to this young lady. They worked together in the same building. There were rumors circulating around the office that his very attractive female manager wanted to get with him, which she adamantly denies. The week that the young man was to be married, his manager was walking in the building one day and the bride-to-be was being dropped off by her sisters. As the manager was walking in the building, they stopped their vehicle as if they wanted to start a confrontation with

Red Flag Struggle

So this week's #struggleoftheweek comes from a young lady who decided to try online dating as an alternative to the traditional way of meeting men. She decided to try a website called PlentyofFish.com. She began chatting with this guy online who had an extremely handsome profile pic. Drop dead gorgeous to be exact. She was showing me pics of the guy and the show "Catfish:The T.V. Show" immediately came to mind. There were only a couple of pics on his page and they didn't seem personal (red flag #1) They

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