Does your “number” define you?
Let's get one thing very clear….and that's the definition of a whore/hoe. Dictionary.com defines whore as such: intr.v. whored, whor·ing, whores 1. To associate or have sexual relations with prostitutes or a prostitute. 2. To accept payment in exchange for sexual relations. 3. To compromise one's principles for personal gain. Urban dictionary.com defines the word 'hoe' as such: 1. A skank 2. A woman that is too loose in the booty. 3. Woman OR man that f*** anything with two legs. 4. A promiscuous person.syn: slut And to be perfectly
Top 3 “Side chick” advantages
O.K. We all get it. Being the side chick is bad. It's degrading. Nobody wants to be considered the side chick. Everyone wants to be the main chick. Side chicks have low self esteem. Side chicks have no dignity.....yada, yada, yada, yada. All over the web I see the awful posts about being the "side chick." Now granted, there are some women who are the "side chick" and they don't know it. I have a friend who once dated a man for six years, met his family, posted pics of
Cheater struggle
In this clip circulating all over YouTube, a boy gets confronted by two friends that he's been sleeping with.... How it ends may make guys think twice about cheating....Or not.
(Explicit) Oral sex: Definitely not what it used to be……
"What is it with these negroes and wanting to just eat pussy??? LOL It used to be such a special sexual act. Now niggas just wanna eat pussy like they drink water." -A.D. Yep. The quote above was said by me in response to an actual text conversation I was having with a friend of mine the other day. What sparked my reaction was not only the fact that she was telling me that a married man was bugging her about going down on her, but the fact that all
“Being Mary Jane:” Airing a single woman’s dirty laundry….
"42% of Black women have never been married" This is the scary statistic that is displayed across the screen after the powerfully real opening scene of "Being Mary Jane" that aired on BET this past Tuesday. The scene begins with Mary Jane, a single successful T.V. journalist (played by the beautiful Gabrielle Union) baking a cake at 2am in the morning and receiving an unexpected but SEXY late night visitor. She's had a casual relationship with this man for the past few months. The man is highly intoxicated but insists
Stalker struggle
(submitted via email) I met this guy a few months ago through some mutual friends. He was out with a very close friend of mine and that friend introduced us one night at a local bar. We exchanged numbers and hit it off very well. He was a great guy. We spent numerous hours on the phone, meeting up for lunch and dinner dates. A few movies here and there, spending a lot of time at each other’s houses, Just dating! This man was great! He was fun loving, great
Color coded dating (Is society still color struck?)
(There has been a lot of talk about this color complex issue with the documentary "Dark Girls" being aired on the OWN network tonight. So here is an encore blog I wrote a few years back. Sadly, nothing has changed since 2008, when it was originally written.) Have you ever had someone say something to you that was probably intended to be a compliment but came across as somewhat insulting at the same time? Well I have dealt with receiving one "compliment" that completely irks the living hell out of
Persistent Struggle
(submitted via Facebook) "Ok so a gentleman tries to spit a lil game at the bank. His approach was not very appealing as he was making references to my posterior and saying how aroused he was getting just by looking. I wasn't interested. "No thank u, I'm really not interested but it was nice meeting u." No biggie. Come to work today and get a call directly to my office! Its HIM. He says "You get my flowers? I had my assistant send u some?" HUH?!! And POOF, flowers at
Deena’s “Dirty Little Secret” Part II (Side Chick Diaries)
So I follow another blogger named Stephan Labossiere on a website called Stephanspeaks.com He wrote an interesting blog called "7 Reasons Why She is Just His Side Chick." I couldn't help but think of my character Deena as she has knowingly and willingly taken on this embarrassing role in Greg's life. For those that need to get caught up on Deena refer to my previous blog "Deena's Dirty Little Secret (Side Chick Struggle)." As I read the reasons that Stephan gave as to why a woman would take on such