Morgan’s new man: Faithful or Phony?

You were first introduced to Morgan in my blog entitled Meet My Cast of Characters..... I gave Morgan the title "Miss Perfect" not because she is, but because rarely will she admit to any wrongdoing when it comes to her failed relationships. Sure she is beautiful, smart, ambitious, and responsible. But she can also be a little too independent and by her own admittance, takes on the wifey role a little sooner in relationships than she should. Her last serious relationship was with a great man who loved her and

“Can’t keep it up” Struggle

You'll probably read this week's Struggle of the Week in about the same amount of time it took the woman who submitted this story to be done with the rather awkward experience she had with a young man she met. This one will be short (pun intended) Just read on, I'll explain. This young lady, let's just call her Melanie, was introduced to this guy by her friend Jasmine. Jasmine had been dating Joseph for a little while and she wanted to play match maker by introducing his friend Albert

Cold Feet Struggle

There was this guy who was engaged to this young lady. They worked together in the same building. There were rumors circulating around the office that his very attractive female manager wanted to get with him, which she adamantly denies. The week that the young man was to be married, his manager was walking in the building one day and the bride-to-be was being dropped off by her sisters. As the manager was walking in the building, they stopped their vehicle as if they wanted to start a confrontation with

Red Flag Struggle

So this week's #struggleoftheweek comes from a young lady who decided to try online dating as an alternative to the traditional way of meeting men. She decided to try a website called PlentyofFish.com. She began chatting with this guy online who had an extremely handsome profile pic. Drop dead gorgeous to be exact. She was showing me pics of the guy and the show "Catfish:The T.V. Show" immediately came to mind. There were only a couple of pics on his page and they didn't seem personal (red flag #1) They

False Alarm Booty Call Struggle

This struggle is actually from a man this week ladies and gentlemen. Yes men have just as many struggles as women. So here it goes... This guy was seeing this young lady. They met through mutual friends and went out on one official date. They met each other out a couple of times but that was the extent of their relationship. Basically just kickin' it, hangin' out, getting to know one another.   They'd never had any physical contact but he was definitely open to it. Anyway, one night at

Crazy Girlfriend Struggle

(submitted by anonymous) "I met up with a guy I knew from high school for dinner at Buffalo Wild Wings. Right in the middle of dinner, this lady walked up, and at first I couldn't tell what was going on.... at first it looked like maybe just somebody he knew who was just playing with him, cause she was going off on him, but also laughing, but i didn't think she was serious. Just thought it was how sometimes people who know each other like that will play like that.

Is this what men REALLY think?

"A woman is supposed to make a man's dick hard, not his life" Yep. When I heard a man say this, I literally had to note it in my Iphone to reference it in my blog this week. Is this how men REALLy think? So I'm gonna veer away from my characters this week to share with you guys an interesting conversation I found myself in with some young men I met last week. Very rarely will you have men and women in a room together and the topic of

Married Liar Struggle

(submitted by anonymous) "Well I went to a happy hr spot w/ my home girl. Met this tall, dark, and handsome guy while I was there. The night went well we conversed, had a few drinks, & danced. He said he was single, no kids, college graduate, & a fireman. Seemed like he was a stand up guy! We exchanged numbers & I was feeling this guy. Not just b/c of what he had but b/c he was really sweat, funny and respectful. We talked for a few days and

Broke Struggle

So this week's #struggleoftheweek is sad, funny, and pitiful all at the same damn time. This young lady I know who has been going through a series of dating struggles lately, went out with a guy a few months ago that she met on an online dating site. They met up for the first time at Dave and Buster's during Happy Hour. The date was was going well. They had a couple of drinks, decent conversation. It was looking promising. Until... The date was coming to a close and neither

Deena’s “Dirty Little Secret” (Side Chick Struggle)

On the heels of the season 2 premiere of my FAVE reality show Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta, I felt it very appropriate to introduce one of my most interesting characters, Miss Deena. Like Joceline Hernandez and Shay "Buckeye" Johnson of LHHATL, Deena is the shameful "Side Chick." As you read in the cast intro blog, Meet My Cast of Characters, Deena is having an interoffice love affair with Greg. Now although Greg is practically ten years younger than she is, the guy is apparently smoother than most men her

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